All parents expect their children to take responsibility for their actions and their belongings. Fostering responsibility is crucial for their development and future success. This can be achieved through assigning age-appropriate house chores.
There are many benefits to having children help around the home. By giving them house chores, they learn to become accountable for their actions which leads to a sense of belonging and a sense of independence as they learn to complete tasks on their own. As a result, they gain confidence in their abilities and become more self-reliant. A 2019 study revealed that performing chores in early elementary school was associated with positive development of self-competence, social behavior, and self-efficacy. Here is a list of chores you can try based on your child’s age:
Young Helpers (Ages 2-6):
Clean Up their toys: Encourage your child to clean up and put their toys back to the designated place once they finished playing.
Wipe down Surfaces: When they spill something, teach them to wipe the surface with a damp cloth.
Dirty clothes: Put the dirty clothes into the laundry basket.
Junior Contributors (Ages 7-11):
Make the Bed: Begin learning to straighten sheets and fluff pillows.
Set and Clear Table: Assist with setting and clearing the table.
Fold the Laundry: Teach them about sorting the laundry
Senior Partners (Ages 12 and above):
Clean the Bathroom: Involve your teen to clean the sink, mirror, and other surfaces.
Organize Spaces: Have them organize their closet space and drawers so they can easily find their clothing.
Cook Meals: Help them to learn to prepare simple and complete meals for themselves.
While chores may not always be the most exciting tasks, they’re a great way to teach children essential life skills. These chores provide children with a sense of accomplishment and independence as they learn to care for themselves and their surroundings. Put these chores scheduled so children acknowledge their responsibilities.
Lastly, keep in mind that flexibility is key. While these suggested chores serve as a general guide, adjusting tasks based on your child’s individual needs ensures a more tailored and rewarding journey towards building essential life skills and character development.
